When you are younger, having family time seems to be a bit of a bore. Yet, as you get a little older, many people start to realise just how important it is to spend quality time with your family and there's many things that prove that this is true!
According to this (Ted talk) longest study on human happiness (ongoing), the key to happiness is having good relationships. Now, not all of us are socialites and have endless amounts of friends, but there is one group of people who are given to you in life. Your family! Now, some people have already separated from their family and may already have other people to call their new adopted "family", whether it is close friends or other, but spending more time with your family can have several benefits, many of which align well with the early retirement philosophy:
- Building healthy relationships is the key to happiness, according to Harvard
- Spending time with family is often cheap
- Having support of family can reduce long term expenses as you pool resources and look after each other
Spending time with your family is often cheap. Whereas friends may want to go to a pub or restaurant to catch up, family is quite often content with simply having a picnic in the park or a barbeque at someone's house. Everyone can cook something and bring it along and crack a few beers bought from the bottle shop, instead of paying $7 a beer at a pub, you can drink 5 for the same price!
Having support of your family can reduce your long term expenses. Pooling resources is a great way to save money, and stops the need for every household to own every item. Just a few weeks ago I learned to do an oil and filter change on my car to save on servicing costs, so I borrowed the tools that I didn't own from my parents. Of course, if I broke it, I would have bought them a replacement, but that didn't happen and I saved a healthy few bucks. It would be great if everyone got to know their neighbours for this same benefit, but it's not really a big part of our culture to be pooling resources with your neighbours, which makes family and friends a great option!
Also, when you get older, you will have a younger generation to look after you, provided that they see you taking good care of your elders and they see it as the normal thing to do. This is obviously going to be a great benefit for you.
So if it's been a while, organise a family get together at the park, beach or your house. It will make you all happier and it a great, cheap use of your time. Especially if you're retired and have lots of time!
Let me know what you think in the comments!